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Pick one: 72 this-or-that choices with an American twist

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This or that is the quickest game you can play on a call: two options, one answer, next. The catch is that most lists stick to coffee or tea and beach or mountains, which nobody has strong feelings about anymore.

These 72 picks are built to start friendly arguments between Americans: brisket versus pulled pork, thermostat settings, Buc-ee's versus a quiet rest stop. Go rapid-fire, and stop whenever an answer surprises you.

This or That is one of 7 in-call games. 18+.

Regional food fights

Best with someone from a different part of the country. Expect strong opinions.

  • Whataburger or Culver's?
  • Chicago deep dish or New Haven apizza?
  • Texas brisket or Carolina pulled pork?
  • Lobster roll: warm with butter or cold with mayo?
  • Cincinnati chili or Texas chili with no beans?
  • Philly cheesesteak or Chicago Italian beef?
  • Grits or hash browns?
  • Biscuits and gravy or a breakfast burrito?
  • Key lime pie or pecan pie?
  • Sweet tea or lemonade?
  • Wings: dry rub or sauced?
  • Ranch or blue cheese?

Around the house and on the commute

  • Podcast or silence on the drive to work?
  • Thermostat at 68 or 74?
  • Load the dishwasher neatly or load it fast?
  • Self-checkout or the cashier line?
  • Leftovers cold or reheated?
  • Robot vacuum or an old-school broom?
  • Carry all the groceries in one trip or make several?
  • Wake up to an alarm or to sunlight?
  • Paper towels or dish towels?
  • Front-yard garden or backyard grill?
  • Doorbell camera or peephole?
  • Fold laundry right away or live out of the basket?

Game day, streaming and playlists

  • Watch the game at a sports bar or on your own couch?
  • Halftime snacks: nachos or sliders?
  • Live sports or a true-crime docuseries?
  • Watch the trailers or show up right when the movie starts?
  • Subtitles on or off?
  • The Oscars or the Grammys?
  • Vinyl or streaming?
  • The red carpet or the memes the next morning?
  • Fantasy league commissioner or casual player?
  • Opening night in theaters or wait for streaming?
  • Country radio or classic rock radio?
  • Rewatch The Office or Parks and Recreation?

Road trips and getaways in the US

  • Gas station snack: beef jerky or candy?
  • A stop at Buc-ee's or a quiet rest area?
  • Grand Canyon or Yellowstone?
  • A weekend in Nashville or Austin?
  • Motel with a pool or cabin with a fire pit?
  • Drive through the night or stop and sleep?
  • Pacific Northwest drizzle or Desert Southwest heat?
  • Map app voice on or off?
  • Aisle seat on a red-eye or window seat on a morning flight?
  • Lake weekend or ski weekend?
  • Spring break in Florida or fall leaves in Vermont?
  • Roadside diner or fast-food drive-thru?

What your picks say about you

These quietly reveal how someone thinks. Good ones to ask 'why' about.

  • Plan the group trip or show up and pay your share?
  • Reply to texts right away or in batches?
  • Thank-you note or thank-you text?
  • Leave a voicemail or hang up and text?
  • Ask for directions or figure it out yourself?
  • Read the reviews first or just try it?
  • Speak up in the meeting or follow up by email?
  • Splurge on shoes or on dinners out?
  • First to arrive at a party or show up when it's packed?
  • Keep receipts or toss them?
  • Tell the story or let someone else tell it?
  • Big birthday or quiet birthday?

Lightning round: pure chaos

  • Socks in bed or never?
  • Cereal first or milk first?
  • Is a hot dog a sandwich: yes or no?
  • Toilet paper over or under?
  • Puns or dad jokes?
  • Ketchup on eggs or hot sauce on eggs?
  • Holiday lights up before Thanksgiving or after?
  • Squirrels: cute or menace?
  • Mall food court or airport food court?
  • Pickles: spears or chips?
  • Snow shovel or snowblower?
  • Crocs or slides?

Rapid-fire rules for a video call

  • One person reads five pairs in a row. The other answers in under two seconds each.
  • Swap who asks after every five.
  • For a laugh, both answer on the count of three and see how often you match.
  • When an answer surprises you, stop the clock and ask why.
  • On momos, pick This or That from the in-call games menu so you both see the same choices on screen.

Frequently asked questions

How many this or that questions fit in a five-minute video call?

If you go rapid-fire, you can get through 30 or more. In practice, most pairs stop after 10 or 15 because one answer sparks a real conversation, which is the point.

Which picks work best with someone from another state?

The regional food fights and road-trip sections. Asking someone from Texas about brisket or someone from Maine about lobster rolls gets a strong opinion every time.

What should we do after we both answer?

Ask one quick follow-up when an answer stands out, like 'Wait, why 68?' Then go back to the list. Mixing quick picks with short follow-ups keeps it from feeling like a survey.

Are these okay for a work icebreaker?

Yes. Everything here is clean and nobody has to share personal details. The household and game-day sections are especially easy for a team call.

Is This or That built into momos calls?

Yes. This or That is one of seven games you can start during a 1-on-1 momos video call. Video chat is free in your browser for adults 18 and over.

Adults only. Never recorded.

momos is for people 18 and older. We don't record or store calls, and report and block are always one tap away. See the safety center.